accentuate natural hair

thinking about what to do with my hair. It's naturally. It curls kinda funky--wavy here, spirals there, kinks elsewhere, but that's what I think is interesting about it. It's very layered and currently a few inches past my shoulder overall.

I like it down but don't want it down at my wedding. Updos are nice, but I just want something that features my curls, kwim? I've been looking around and I see curly styles that are down and shorter or mostly down or the "curls" are curling-iron curls. Pretty, but not what my hair actually does.

I think my hair is pretty straight but I always feel like it's not the real me that people are meeting. I dunno, that's weird. Any other curly heads?