disney honeymoon

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Thu, 07/09/2009 - 09:07
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We think we will be going to Disney Florida for our honeymoon, with the kids of course!!! i know hubby 2 be wants us to go somewhere alone, but i think if we are going to spend a lot of money on it, we could take the kids and make it a dream holiday for them too...
am i being selfish??

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Thu, 07/09/2009 - 09:50
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make sure you have plenty of together time just for the two of you, you dont want the kids to ruin a romantic holiday....most of us know how stressful family holidays can be at times.
you're not being selfish though - quite the opposite! It might be thr right thing for you to be a bit selfish now and enjoy the lone time with your hubby - as it is your honeymoon!
Good luck either way hun - i'm sure you'll have a perfect time!

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Wed, 09/09/2009 - 11:28
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i dont think its a good idea! i mean its better that the two of you must be alone together for the first time and maybe next  year to be with the children..

 
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Wed, 09/09/2009 - 12:17
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You are being selfless for the kids. It's to be your honeymoon, for God's sake! Why do you want to take the kids with you? It's for you and your hubby alone. Please consider the feelings of your hubby. He has to take precedence now.

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Thu, 09/10/2009 - 22:48
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angel wrote:

We think we will be going to Disney Florida for our honeymoon, with the kids of course!!! i know hubby 2 be wants us to go somewhere alone, but i think if we are going to spend a lot of money on it, we could take the kids and make it a dream holiday for them too...
am i being selfish??

Nope. You're being great.

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Thu, 09/10/2009 - 22:49
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bridesmom wrote:

You are being selfless for the kids. It's to be your honeymoon, for God's sake! Why do you want to take the kids with you? It's for you and your hubby alone. Please consider the feelings of your hubby. He has to take precedence now.

This is correct but if its okay with your partner and both of you couldn't think of doing it without the kids, then by all means tag them along.

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Wed, 09/30/2009 - 01:48
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I can see me doing something like this if I had kids. :) I know I would have a lot of people telling me I am wrong. That I should spend alone time with my new husband. I wouldn't want to leave my children though.

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