frustrated and fairly new to marriage

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Thu, 07/09/2009 - 07:20
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so far I think you have handled it well you got out of the family business, and sought counselling for your husband and yourself. Your husband is to used to being a mommies

boy so I think you are going to have a hard time convincing him that you all need to satrt doing things in your own I don't promote getting divorce but maybe the leverage you need needs to be some form of seoeration until he decideds that you are his family.

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Thu, 07/09/2009 - 07:39
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He's totally dependent on his parents. That is so wrong.

Perhaps he is afraid to make decisions on his own? Have success of his own? Have opinions of his own?

He has to choose you over mama. That's the way it is.

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Fri, 09/04/2009 - 07:44
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That is a problem with guys who are mommy's boys. They are very hard to wean away from mom, and mom never seems to have the strength or the will power to let go. Get yourselves as far away from mom as possible.

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