How emotional are you at weddings?

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I get very emotional at weddings.  It doesn't matter who is getting married, I always tear up.  I even cried at a wedding where I was a guest who didn't know the bride or groom.

Why do wedding do this to me?

Are you a cryer at weddings too?

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Oh my, you cried when you didn't even know the people. 

I'm emotional too at weddings.  I'm not even sure why.  I always tear up when I see the bride all gorgeous before she walks down the aisle.

One of my best friends was married a month ago.  I did this!  At the reception she was like, thanks a lot-- you almost made me cry!  It was all fun though.

Weddings are just emotional.  It's always a good cry too, not a sad or sorry cry like funerals.

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I cry when I see the groom or the FOB get all choked up. 

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I don`t usually cry. But like another poster said If I see the bride or groom get teary eyed then I will too. I love weddings. I might cry when one of my kids gets married. lol

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If I see anyone else get teary eyed, it is all over for me!  

I think before my sons wedding I better have a couple glasses of wine.  Maybe it will help me control the crying.

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I also get emotional at weddings, even before I became a mom.
I think it's such a memorable event in the life of a person, that gives off that emotional impact.

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I too cry at any and all weddings. Strangely, I managed not to cry at my own but I have cried at everyone else's. My sister bawled all the way through mine as well!

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I too cry if i saw the groom . but i will control it by drinking some glasses of wine.........

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i am also soft in nature,so i also could not control my emotions while anybody cries.

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a cry can happen .... at all ur feelings ... weather ur happy or sad ... bt when u feeel it extremly ,then u tear ..... i wish u to ve best in life

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Of course it is true that tears comes out of love and affection...the uncontrollable emotions reflects in the form of tears only....

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ya i cried a lot during marriage not because i am leaving my parents but they didnt give food i was so hungry

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i am also soft in nature, i will control my self while cries...........

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yes! even to me it doesn't matter who is getting married... i too always tear up.  
i dont know why do this wedding do this, but it happens..

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yes! of course. everybody will have teary eyes when his/her child get marriage and move out  the of the house.  to lead a separate life..

Especailly it happens in the bridegroom's family..

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Asin.  I like your spirit.. this is the way everybody should..  you didn't cry for leaving parents and staying away for the first time.. , but you cried for food... great job..

My hearty regards

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yes! absolutely the tear comes out,  when we are going to stay away from our loved one it definitely breaks out of the eye.. everybody in the world would feel...

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Ya tears will come out of the eyes ..... but i will manage it by saying that "some dust particals fell in the eyes...."

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sher!..  i think you had stupid idea about emotion.. because an emotion is a great feeling to express his/her love to their loved one... but you.....

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wine.  you bloody.. how dare you take wine when you  see a groom... i really hate this..

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I don't know why, but I've never really been emotional at weddings. I just got very excitedm that's all.

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 I always have, my wedding, a friends, someone that I went with back before I was married (as their date/person to take) - does not matter who it is. If its real and I am there (not like in a movie or on TV), I cry, and oddly I am not that emotional (unless pregnant or at a wedding). :)

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I guess it's the whole atmosphere and the love that we feel flowing around that gets us emotional. I don't really get emotional at weddings but see many people sheeding tears of joy around me. It is a regular occurence at the weddings.

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Tijay wrote:

I guess it's the whole atmosphere and the love that we feel flowing around that gets us emotional. I don't really get emotional at weddings but see many people sheeding tears of joy around me. It is a regular occurence at the weddings.

I guess so. And most of the people I also see crying are women, specially the older ones. 

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I can't really stop my tears to fall during the emotional vows between the bride and the groom, because in vows I can feel the sincerity and the sacredness of the bond.

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I cry when I see people getting married. Oh geesh! I cry when I am watching someone get married on a television show..lol I know, I am a sap!