Do not put too much expectation on your first night. Many couples just go to their hotel room and fall asleep after the long excitement of their wedding...and you have your whole honeymoon to be intimate.
If you both have energy to enjoy each other, let it happen at its own pace. Allow him to take you out of your wedding dress. This only happens once..enjoy it. Take a shower together...relax and explore and learn about each other. No rushing, no anxiety...just relax.
Exactly said, there should not be any anxiety or rushing.First the couples should discuss with each other about their own habbits and hobbies.They have to share their thoughts with each other.This leads to a good understanding between them.Then get closer and be friendly ...automatically anxiety and stress will fly off.....
Just go slow -- you have all the time in the world. And some couples who are too tired or stressed out the first night get some sleep first, and then become intimate the next day or something... just do what is natural for you both, don't feel pressured, relax and enjoy each other. =)
One of the most effective things to keep both your minds cool at the first night would be to wrap some ice in towels and put it in your heads. :P Just kidding. Well, just relax a little, chill out. Of course both of you are excited but its better not to rush things out. Just talk, take the time to mesmerize and reminisce the things that happened in the day. But if you think your partner's really that hot for it, the might as well go for sex. There won't be anything wring with it now anyways.
Don't put pressure on yourself. Take thing slowly and they will come naturally. Don't just jump into it. Have a glass of wine, talk about your wedding, let things transpire naturallly.
As far as I know, the best way to keep your mind cool at your first night is to have sex all night long. No joke. I think we're adults here to know that sex is great and really makes us feel good. No wonder all you'd feel at that night is nothing but joy.
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just share their opinion,they want to know about each other and under stand each other,dont fear about first night
Do not put too much expectation on your first night. Many couples just go to their hotel room and fall asleep after the long excitement of their wedding...and you have your whole honeymoon to be intimate.
If you both have energy to enjoy each other, let it happen at its own pace. Allow him to take you out of your wedding dress. This only happens once..enjoy it. Take a shower together...relax and explore and learn about each other. No rushing, no anxiety...just relax.
Exactly said, there should not be any anxiety or rushing.First the couples should discuss with each other about their own habbits and hobbies.They have to share their thoughts with each other.This leads to a good understanding between them.Then get closer and be friendly ...automatically anxiety and stress will fly off.....
Just go slow -- you have all the time in the world. And some couples who are too tired or stressed out the first night get some sleep first, and then become intimate the next day or something... just do what is natural for you both, don't feel pressured, relax and enjoy each other. =)
think ur partner as ur .... love not as monster ... then ur mind ill automatically feel relaxed
just sleep and take rest that will do
Relax, and engage in some chit chats with your new hubby. Act naturally.
One of the most effective things to keep both your minds cool at the first night would be to wrap some ice in towels and put it in your heads. :P Just kidding. Well, just relax a little, chill out. Of course both of you are excited but its better not to rush things out. Just talk, take the time to mesmerize and reminisce the things that happened in the day. But if you think your partner's really that hot for it, the might as well go for sex. There won't be anything wring with it now anyways.
Don't put pressure on yourself. Take thing slowly and they will come naturally. Don't just jump into it. Have a glass of wine, talk about your wedding, let things transpire naturallly.
As far as I know, the best way to keep your mind cool at your first night is to have sex all night long. No joke. I think we're adults here to know that sex is great and really makes us feel good. No wonder all you'd feel at that night is nothing but joy.