second marriage
Tue, 08/25/2009 - 13:03
How to choose the right lover/wife in second marriage?
As it is evdident that first marriage was a mistake,there is a deep down fear for all divorcees of choosing the right life partner second time.How best can I know whether I will make the right choice this time.The scare is that it may go the same way as first and lead to nightmare of second divorce.Readers on other side of this dilemma with a happy married second marriage ,please advice me urgently.
my husband was a widower and got married with me for the second time.I also had my first separation but 3 years after i got married with this man and were living happily now with our 3 kids.Honesty is the best policy in the house,coordination and cooperation with the household works are the daily routines.Love,respect and prayers to Our Almighty are the ingredients of our marriage.Sometimes,its not perfect but it's normal coz were just humans and that"s should be keep always in our mind;the sense of understanding ones imperfections...
I say you know when it's right. If you feel like you have found the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, then go for it. Noone can tell you when it's right to get married or how to pick the person to marry, only you know that.
Sometimes relationships don't work out, but it should not stop you from trying to find true happiness.
After the first marriage, one should have learned more about herself or himself. One should be able to discern more objectively if the other person is the right one that would complement his or her character/personality.
For you second marriage, when you feel that that's it, then go for it. I don't think you should really be looking for a perfect partner for having only mean that he/she is not perfect because there is no such thing. There would always be bad times in whoever you're going with so if you just feel it, then trust that insticnt.
After the first marriage, one is naturally cautious when choosing a new partner. But comparison should be avoided, as no to persons are exactly alike. Use the mind as well as the heart the second time around.
my husband was a widower and got married with me for the second time.I also had my first separation but 3 years after i got married with this man and were living happily now with our 3 kids.Honesty is the best policy in the house,coordination and cooperation with the household works are the daily routines.Love,respect and prayers to Our Almighty are the ingredients of our marriage.Sometimes,its not perfect but it's normal coz were just humans and that"s should be keep always in our mind;the sense of understanding ones imperfections...
Congrats to you. It proves that a second marriage can bring you happiness. Just because you failed in the first marriage, doesn't mean you will also failed in the second. You might just haven't found the right person.